Tips to Making Your Married Life Less Stressful
It’s true that marriage is no fairytale if we speak for the vast majority. Yes, it is one of the most beautiful and wonderful phases of life. But in life, there are bound to be challenges and hardships in every aspect of life. And so, the marriage life with all its pleasures, love, and laughter is also a relationship that brings along massive duties and responsibilities.
Naima
ElHassari pours out her years of emotional struggles and
challenges in her book, “Years of
Drifting.” As a woman who faced life’s cruelty and experienced moments that
she would cherish forever expounds on how she stands resilient today. She feels
accomplished to come out even stronger than before. She gives a true portray of
life, from facing emotional and sexual abuse as a child, dealing with the
problems in her married life, and keeping up with her corporate career. Her
journey is one that is bound to give valuable lessons on life and marital
relations to the readers, to which they can easily relate.
1.
Communicate
with Your Spouse Openly
Usually, a gap in communication with your partner is
where the problems in the relationship stem from. Talk about how you feel and
what is bothering you. Whether you have rough days at work or whether are
struggling to manage some of the house chores and responsibilities, talk about
it all. Do not bottle your emotions inside so much that it becomes a burden on
your mind and soul.
2.
Divide
Responsibilities
To make the marriage work, both the partners require
to put in their efforts. Keep a balance between all the duties and chores. Be
compassionate and understand your spouse’s position. Divide the daily chores
and tasks in a way that no one of you is burdened with overwork.
3.
Prioritize
Your Family
Remember, we work day in and day out in our jobs to
provide the best for our family. We earn to sustain a better living and
safeguard the future of the children. So it’s noteworthy to let go of a job
that keeps you so occupied that you have no time left to spend with your loved
ones. It’s just not worth it.
4.
Enjoy
Your Spouse’s Company
Spend quality time with your partner. Appreciate the
little things they are doing to make your life better and easier. Make it known
that you acknowledge their hard work and care for them with a sincere heart.
Make sure to spare time for a romantic dinner once in a while. Go to the beach,
enjoy and make happy memories.
5.
Don’t
Let Anger Overtake Your Emotions
Regardless of how packed your schedule is or how your
hectic day at work frustrated you, never let out your anger at your spouse.
Keep your anger issues in check. Whenever you have an argument with your
partner, and you see your partner fuming. Stop the debate from your end. Do not
respond aggressively, and just stay quiet. You can say your point after the
heated moment is over. This way, you won’t regret uttering harsh words which
you might say in anger.
About
the Author:
Born
and raised in Morocco, Naima ElHassari
has experienced the worst and best of life. Her life story will take you on a
journey of her time from childhood to adulthood. Getting a higher degree in
education, working jobs to pay her tuition, and then working hard to get a visa
to the USA, Naima is an inspiration to all the women who battle with the
question of who they are after facing abuse throughout their lives. Her
inspirational journey is encapsulated in her book, “Years of Drifting.” Let her story motivate you and renew your hope
for life because it is never too late for trying to rebuild your life.
As
a woman from a conservative culture, Naima has built herself up using only her
strength, courage, and conviction.
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